KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP!

It's pathetic and senseless were people choose what's wrong instead of what's right, just to fulfilled someone else misfit needs. Finding yourself a love is not a bad idea but love with your full sense unimpaired. The shortest and easiest way is not always the best way. Sometimes the longest and most difficult journey is the safest, surest and best in the end. So many of us are in a fast-lane to hook up with someone else in the name of others are mainly getting married. Love is the best thing that could ever happen to anyone, one should not also be so much in a hurry to forgot that, there are still forces surrounding love. Some forces are stronger than love and that's why some love got easily crushed before the test of time. Many people have gone through unnecessary pain because they failed to look carefully before they leapt into a relationship. 

They were moved by the sweet words, nice things they saw about the person and a relationship decision based on that. They allowed their emotions to run riot and determine the course of their lives..There is absolutely nothing wrong with using our emotions as long as we are well grounded and understood the principles and values that govern and determine a great life. We cannot make a relationship decision in isolation of other areas of our lives. A relationship affects everything about us.

The moment you grant access to someone to enter your life, that person comes in with everything they have.. He or she will influence you in ways you never imagined. They will enter your life with both the positive aspect of their character and the negative. For your own good, it's best that the person you grant access to come into your life as a blessing and not a curse.

I know many girls who are being trained to go to school but might only end up living their dreams in a bathroom, or enslaving themselves to bad relationships. Maybe culture and religion told many their only option as women is to stay married without thinking about the feebleness of relationship, forgetting how fast marriages are headed for brutal divorce nowadays, as the true meaning of marriage isn't being taught anymore.

I predominantly like to emphasize on love based on social media. Like I said earlier, there's nothing wrong in finding yourself a love but be watchful and be morally upright with whom you are involved with. What some of our ladies do these days on social media is dishearteningly.. My Dad got married to my Mum without any impediment.. They didn't met each other on social media and none of them sent a nude pictures to weight the measure of love they do had for each other. Someone who truly loved you as he claimed, won't got you trap in the relationship.

Don't by your own clairvoyance or someone else sixth sense force yourself into an action that would tie you down, or enslave you on a relationship that you need to break free from. Apart from God, no one is everything and everything is not one thing. Don't put yourself in chains  and later ask others for the key. Even images for salt look alike powdered sugar. Be wise and keep your head up. It's 2017 don't only seen it as only a new year, see it as another opportunity to correct your past errors. This year would favor us all, see yourself outdoing your past. Get the message and forgive the common errors of expression..