Monday, 30 December 2013

HOW ONE PERCEIVE HIMSELF, HOW HE TALK ABOUT HIMSELF, AND HOW HE PRESENT HIMSELF EVENTUALLY BECOME THE REALITY FOR HIM!


If you will carry yourself in a way that shows men that you are worth fighting for, because you are an intelligent woman, whose beauty lies on the inside, more than it does on the outside, the wait might be longer, but the results will be much better. Having said that, it does help for you to look after the outside, too. People don't want to look inside a house if it needs a paint and the garden is in a mess. My point is, whatever a man sees on the outside, needs to be a reflection of who you are on the inside.
A big part of who you become in life has to do with who you choose to surround yourself with. Sometimes luck controls who walks into your life, but you decide who you let stay, who you pursue, and who you let walk back out. Ultimately, you should surround yourself with people who make you a better person and let go of those who don’t. It’s obvious, but any relationship without regular interaction and communication is going to have problems, especially when there's a lack of commitment. Don't waste your time with someone who only wants you around when it’s convenient for them. You shouldn't have to force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they truly care about you they will gladly create space for you. Being in a relationship with someone who overlooks your worth isn't loyalty, it’s stupidity.

Never beg someone for attention. Know your self-worth, and move on if you must. Some people will refuse to accept that you are no longer who you used to be, that you have made mistakes in the past, learned from them, and moved past them. They may not be able to stand the fact that you’re growing and moving on with your life, and so they will try to drag your past to catch up with you. Do not help them by acknowledging their negative behavior keep moving forward. Holding on to the unchangeable past is a waste of energy and serves no purpose in creating a better days ahead. If someone continuously judges you by your past and holds it against you, you might have to repair your future by leaving them behind. 

Healthy relationships keep the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is flowing and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this kind of unrestricted environment. You can come and go as you please, but you choose to stay because where you are is where you want to be. If you want to be a part of someone’s life, all the open doors and windows in the world won’t make you leave. If someone has closed them all in an effort to trap you into something you don’t want to be a part of, it’s time to find the strength to kick down the door. 

If you allow others to define your dreams and abilities, then you enable them to hold you back. What you’re capable of achieving is not a function of what other people think is possible for you. What you’re capable of achieving depends on what you choose to do with your time and energy. People will throw all sorts of assumptions your way about what is possible and what is impossible. Look beyond the presumptions and mental limitations of others, and connect with your own best vision of how your life can be. Life is an open-ended journey, and what you achieve comes from what you expect to achieve and what you work to achieve. So don’t worry about what everyone else thinks. 

Keep living your truth. The only people that will get mad at you for doing so are those who want you to live a lie. Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active in all relationships. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance between lovers, it is also a behavior among friends and family. If someone lies to you, they are unloving disrespecting you and your relationship. When you keep someone in your life who is a chronic liar, and you keep giving them new chances to be trusted, you have a lot in common with this person, you’re both lying and being unloving to you. Bottom line, those who avoid the truth and tell you only what you want to hear do so for their own benefit, not yours. Don’t put up with it. Cause is your life live it, to the fullest.!

BEAUTY IS INCOMPLETE WITHOUT A DASHING ATTITUDE TO BACK IT UP!

Beauty. It's about the looks or the soul. Well, that is for all to debate upon, but the concept of beauty has always been a mystery. Just think of it, if there had been only a single woman living on earth, how would you compare her beauty? With whom will you do so? On the other hand, why is it so that even the gorgeous of women, beautiful to the core, sometimes do not appeal to us? Moreover, sometimes we come across people who may not be drop dead gorgeous but they impress you thoroughly. Therefore, beauty may be defined as something deeper than just looks! It is something that brings out the real self in you; it is something that defines you. Beauty is incomplete without attitude. Attitude is what makes you a different person altogether. It is something that makes you what you are! Even the best of looks can be ignored, if you do not have a dashing attitude to back it up. The way you carry yourself plays a vital role in making you look beautiful. You personality is what attracts people and looks can only add to it.

Women since ages have tried out means to look bold and beautiful. Being beautiful has become a part of life for them. The fairer sex has never rejoiced the idea of being ignored and so have taken up array of beauty regimes and beauty treatments to combat their beauty problems that come with age. From the multiple sittings at the beauty salons to homemade beauty treatments, nothing seems enough when it comes to looking the best in all. If hair fall is a problem, those blonde streaks can be fixed with the best of shampoos, conditioners and hair serums and if the problems still persist, just make it to the hair spas enjoying the best of scalp massages and hair treatments. Spas also give you body massages to die for! This not only rejuvenates your body but also induces extra energy in you.

Not everyone is perfect and so aren’t you! So, how do you handle the shortcomings in your looks? Would it be a hindrance in your way to achieve that perfect beauty? Well, no…now the beauty cosmetic brands bring you best beauty cosmetic ranges to fix those minor defects in your face. A bit of concealer, a dash of foundation, a dab of compact, some blush-on, eye makeup, and lipstick…that is all you need to look pretty and appealing! Now that you are done with your face, the next priority will be your hair. Bored with your blonde look or looking forward to long black silky hair…beauty hair solutions can fix all your hair problems. Color your hair, straighten it, curl it, style it the way you want and get the chic haircuts to add to your looks.

Your closet comprises a major part of your beauty and looks. When it is stuffed with the latest fashion apparels and trendsetting outfits, nothing can steal that attraction from your looks. The latest designs, cuts, and fabrics along with an array of colors and patterns to select from, stylish outfits only add to the ‘x-factor’ of your beauty. However, before you go for a particular outfit, you must be sure of your body type and figure. Your closet must have matching accessories and footwear complementing your dresses and outfits which is an essential elements that completes your beautiful look.

Your personality is what adds hugely to your beauty quotient. When you carry yourself with confidence and there is an air of self-assurance around you, everything else fits in. A confident beautiful smile, a body language to go with it, your style statement, the way you talk, carry yourself, the way you move and your graceful presence, all add to the beauty of your personality.

The beauty of one’s inner self is the truth of beauty. It is how you look at the world and how you react to things that make you irresistibly attractive and beautiful. As Keats once said “A thing of beauty is a joy forever: its loveliness increases; it will never pass into nothingness” and when the beauty of your soul lives up to the concept of eternal beauty, nothing will ever be able to erase your thoughts from minds of others.